Preparing to pack up your life and move overseas is hard. There is so much stuff you don’t readily think of that you need to do, from dentist appointments to cancelling gym memberships to working out what to do with my car and packing up my room. It is hectic! Don’t get me wrong I didn’t think it would be easy or anything but I am constantly thinking of new stuff I have to do that you completely forget about because you just take it for granted that its just a part of life, you forget how complex your life really is.
Then we had a slight curve-ball thrown at us the other week when we found out American citizens can’t get Working Holiday Visas… aka I can (being Australian) but Daniel can’t. Thank god the lovely Alex from Speaking Denglish pointed this out when she so kindly answered my long questions on Germany and visas, I honestly don’t know how we missed it when looking into it all but thankfully we had enough time to work out what to do. The plan is still pretty much the same except we’ll now have to get real jobs so we can get working visas, sad face! Downside less flexibility for travel, upside more money for travel! That and I think it makes our families feel a little better that we will hopefully be somewhat stable and not just live like Peter Pan forever. And well if we don’t find jobs we now have plan b… and plan c. Don’t judge me. There is no manual on becoming an expat! I’ve finally resorted to writing a scarily long running to do list and printing out a blank calendar of now until I leave and scheduling everything in. Let me tell you… it’s full. Its pretty damn full.
Then again I guess half the fun is the challenge, knowing that you are making this happen. That you really are ‘taking the road less traveled’.
One of the best but also strangest and saddest parts is trying to see everyone before you. I say best because I have had a great time the past couple of weeks, never saying no to anything because who knows when I’ll do it again or see them again as well as spending some really valuable time with my family who I will miss the most. Its been strange though seeing friends who I don’t catch up with on a regular basis and then having to randomly drop into conversation the fact that I’m moving overseas in oh you know 3 weeks! I do quite enjoy the reactions I get though haha! Here is a bit of a photo recap of from the last 2 weeks of all of the great quality family and friends time I’ve had trying to get a good dose of all things Sydney (and other parts of Australia) to last me until I’m back, who knows when that will be!
Saying goodbye is going to be the hardest part.