German Efficiency- Fact or Fiction?

We all know the stereotype that Germans are known for their efficiency…. well guess what, its a big fat lie. Germany has to be the most inefficient country I have ever been to, or at least any of the governmental systems. It’s like it’s some great big sham that’s really quite impressive how far it’s gone, I mean the whole world knows about German efficiency. They had some good marketers I’ll tell you that!

I have had numerous Germans comment “that’s German efficiency for you” and roll their eyes! It’s a complete and total farce and they are all well aware of it.

Everything you do goes through multiple people/departments, is full of paper work and will take weeks months.

The Germans looove their paper work and they love their lines. Everything you do involves getting there early, to get in the line then waiting at least an hour before it opens then probably another half hour to get a waiting number to then wait at least another hour to be seen.

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Now you might be thinking ‘come on Hannah you’ve only lived there 4 months’ how can you possibly know about German efficiency. Well if you really want to see how a country functions become an expat and move there. I have never had to jump through so many bureaucratic hoops or deal with so many different facets of governmental institutions. I mean, obviously I wouldn’t need to in Australia being a citizen and all but I seriously doubt it involves as much as Germany. I mean when Daniel moved to Sydney he got a one year working holiday visa…before he went… Online.

Not in Germany!! Nothing happens online, it all involves face to face with lots of waiting in lines and lots of paper work (and usually people who don’t speak English, even though literally everyone else including homeless beggars can).

Fortunately I recently discovered the best way to get what you need when they don’t speak english and refuse to help… keep looking confused and asking the same question over and over again… oh and look like you might cry at any second.

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You want a tax ID required for work? You’re going to have to wait in line for that.  You want to register your address? You’re going to have to wait in line for that.You want to apply for a visa? You’re going to have to wait in line for that. 7 times if you’re us, a record so far, we’re yet to meet anyone who took over 3 visits to lodge their visa application. I tell you by the 7th time of waking up at 4am to wait 4 hours all bets are off and social decency/being lady-like goes out the window. When the doors opened I ran up the stairs elbowing people out of the way… I’d do it again not my best moment.

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Oh yeh, did I forget to mention you have to register your address every time you move? Yeh every time. Even if you’re living in a hotel, because anything else you want to do requires that precious piece of paper.

The magic rule for calculating how long anything will take, times it by three.

They say the line will take an hour? It will take 3.
You order something to be mailed to you they estimate to take a week? It will take 3.
You apply for your visa and they estimate the processing time to be a month? It will take 3.

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The only area they are efficient is in the supermarket checkout. You feel like you’re on a game show where the slowest bagging shopper gets eliminated. The cashier will have swiped your stuff, taken your money and started swiping the next customers things into your pile before you’ve even managed to open the bag.

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One things for sure, after tackling all of these obstacles you feel pretty darn good about yourself.

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Disclaimer: This may all be because we live in Berlin, aka East Germany. I have been told the West is nothing like this, but these opinions are purely based on my personal experiences.

Budvegas- Budva, Montenegro

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Things as you might have heard have been a little hectic here what with working 12 hour days and crossing other expat milestones so I still haven’t finished recapping my travels from when I first arrived in Europe a whole 4 months ago! I can’t believe how fast time has gone, especially the last month.

So we if you’re new here or can’t remember where we were up to in that amazing first month in Croatia and the Greek Island we last left with the scariest jeep ride ever from white water rafting in the Tara River Canyon, Montenegro to one of the Adriatic’s oldest cities, Budva.

After crazy few weeks of non-stop partying and activity at Yacht Week and white water rafting we were in serious need of some R & R. Budva was the perfect place for it. Its quite cheap and besides visiting their Old Town and many bars there isn’t really that much to do besides go to the beach and chill out. Couple that with the fact its still outside the schengen zone (European visa area you can only be in for 90 days). Its a great way to extend your European vacation and relax. Not to mention is was super hot!

A big thing Budva is none for is its clubbing scene. There are all sorts of bars and clubs (fairly trashy of course) on just about every street, hence we dubbed it Budvegas.

We pretty much our few days in Budvegas eating cheap seafood feasts, and drinking cheap cocktails, catching up on sleep and lazing at the beach.

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About a half hour taxi ride is the town of Tivat. Even though its only a short distance from Budva its like you’ve stepped into a completely different world (and a much more expensive world). Its mostly made of up a very large super yacht marina with an outdoor mall of designer stores and fancy restaurants. All very beautiful and classy, unlike the rest of Budvegas. But also unlike Budva, it almost a complete ghost town! It might have been because it was the middle of the day and so it was very hot outside or perhaps because we were there at the tail end of the high season. It was a great place to get away from the semi-chaos of Budva for the afternoon and spend it sipping on delicious cocktails and lounging by the giant harbour.

Budva Montenegro harbour swim

please ignore my terrible cankles, my feet and lower legs were soo swollen for weeks after yacht week. They just couldn’t handle the serious heat, alcohol and lots of walking

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After a few days of detox and recovery we decided to one of Budva’s most famous attractions, Top Hill. Top Hill is a 5000 person nightclub on top of a hill (creative naming) that overlooks the whole city of Budva. After watching some youtube videos of it we had high expectations. Well like any night with expectations it turned out fairly crap. I don’t think I have ever been more bored on a night out. The club wasn’t even close to full so had virtually no atmosphere. Plus if you had a table (which everyone did, like a standing table) you could only order from a waiter which not only cost more of course but he was also never around! It might be better in the middle of high season, but it was not worth the taxi ride that night thats for sure.

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All in all I wouldn’t call Budva a must see destination by any means, but if you need to extend your time in Europe by getting out of the Schengen zone or are looking for a cheap beach destination to chill out and save some money for a few days Budvegas is not a bad place for it.

 

 

A Week of Expat Milestones

The first week of 2015 was a big one for us. It was probably our busiest and most exhausting week since we arrived in Berlin. But some big expat milestones were crossed last week!

I got a German Bank account

Finally after living here almost 4 months I have a German bank account! I finally had to get it asap on Friday so work could pay me this week, talk about incentive. I cannot wait for my EC debit card since almost no shop (including grocery stores) will accept my visa or mastercards.

I got a German tax file number

Also needed to get paid but I’m an official worker in Germany now! It was another fun experience with German bureaucracy. The first lady said she couldn’t help so I took another number and tried the next person. She didn’t want to help me either but I have recently discovered if I just keep begging and looking confused and like I might cry they end up deciding it will just be easier for them to do it for me to get rid of me. The key to German bureaucracy!

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Daniel got an amazing job offer

So Daniel got a job a while back but hasn’t been able to work a day there yet because we are STILL waiting for his visa to come through. But in the meantime he has been applying to other jobs that are more what he’s looking for and he managed to score an amazing traineeship with a really impressive company. They had the most intense interview process ever narrowing the applicants from 350 to 35 before inviting the remaining to come to an all day interview and testing day, we’re talking 12 on 1 interviews! But he made it through and couldn’t be happier. We’re just praying his visa doesn’t mess it up for him.

Daniel made it on a water polo team

This is probably the biggest news. In case you’re a new reader, one of the main reasons we came to Berlin was so Daniel could pursue professional water polo. It’s a hard sport to get into as you really need to know someone as it’s very hard to find information. By some miracle a few weeks ago our lovely friend invited us for dinner with her flat mates and would you believe it they have a friend who plays on the team. What are the odds?! So they put Daniel in touch with him last Monday and by Tuesday he was already training 4 days a week with them. It’s been a very trying week for him as he’s been out of the pool so now he’s not in top form but he’s giving it his absolute all to get back into it

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This is from his old team but I can’t wait to see him do this again. Can you believe I’ve never actually seen him play?!

Daniel played in his first professional water polo tournament!

That’s right after less than 4 days on the team Daniel played his first ever pro water polo tournament! Poor guy had to play 5 games over this weekend which is pretty rough when he hasn’t played in months. But I think to be able to say he had a pro game versing prague on the weekend makes up for it.

It’s been a long road but it’s exciting seeing things coming together more and more. It’s nice not to be stuck in limbo between being tourists and belonging. I feel like we can officially say we live here. It’s a pretty nice feeling.

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Other expats what were your significant milestones?

All I Want For Christmas… An Expat’s Wishlist

I love being an expat, but sometimes there are certain comforts from home or particular Australian things that I would do just about anything for. Its funny how your perspective on things you need let alone want really changes when you don’t have things you used to just take for granted.

Some of these items aren’t necessarily stuff we can’t buy in Germany but they might be outside our budget or not necessary enough to justify purchasing and the having to lug with us from house to house (especially when at the moment we’ll only be here a year).

So without further adieu heres a list of random items I would love the big jolly fat man to carry down our non-existant fireplace and place under next to our adorable miniature christmas tree.

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1. Vegemite

Come on, I’m Australian, you can’t be surprised. I don’t care how cliched it is. Oh sweet Vegemite how I miss you so. Both Daniel and I brought a small thing of Vegemite and they are already gone (by gone I mean they are still in our fridge waiting to be cut open and scraped clean). Ahh damn Daniel for being the only American to actually like Vegemite, I should never have weened him onto it, now I need to ween him off!

2. A pot large enough to hold pasta

So annoying all we have are these little bitchlet pots that I’m like, who even buys these?? All we can do pretty much is boil eggs in them. I had to cook pasta sauce across 2 pots the other night, its just such a pain.

3. Sushi

Sushi. Oh glorious sushi, what I wouldn’t do for sushi train right now omg. Next time I’m in Sydney I’m just going to stuff my face with sushi until I never want to look at it again. Germans right now are probably like ahh we have sushi all over the place. This is true, but it is so expensive!! Its like 8 Euros for a tiny, snack size amount of very plain looking sushi that wouldn’t be enough for anyone expect maybeee a child. Thats $12 Australian, for like 4 small pieces, I just can’t bring myself to do it.

4. A store that accepts Visa and Mastercard

So many places only take EC cards (Some kind of Euro credit card) and won’t take my visa or mastercards! What is going on?? Its not like I even have American Express, these are Visa and Mastercard! On Thanksgiving we were buying our groceries for our feast, we get to the front of the line, have scanned and bagged all our items then when I go to pay on my card we find out they don’t take either. We had to hand almost everything back since we only had a small amount of cash on us at the time. So embarrassing with a giant line behind us. Then we went to the supermarket next door and had the same thing happen. Not fun. Now we make sure we always have cash on us, and coins because the tram ticket machines only take coins! I hate coins.

5. Toaster with a cancel switch

Our place has the cheapest toaster, every time I want to pop my toast up early I either have to risk burning/electrocuting myself or pull the plug out so it pops up. The struggle is real.

6. Clothes Variety

I am SO sick of all of my clothes. Since we weren’t sure how long we’d be here and we plan on doing quite a bit of traveling all I brought was one backpacker pack and one carry-on size suitcase worth of stuff. Not going to lie it was quite a challenge and they were literally stuffed to the brim (thank god for space bags). I’ve bought a couple things here but really only just a couple warm things I needed since I was freezing, but I try not to buy much else since we have to move it from place to place. Its so hard though especially with H & M and Zara on pretty much every corner just begging me to buy all the things (my friends and family know I’m just a bit of a shopaholic).

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I’m still pretty proud of myself, a whole walk-in wardrobe condensed to only this

7. A Dryer

At home in Australia I don’t use a dryer (for Americans reading this, we have them we just rarely use them), but here I feel like it should just be a given that you have a dryer, yet our place doesn’t have one. Trying to squeeze all of our clothes onto one tiny IKEA rack that is then placed in the middle of our studio apartment where it takes like 3 days to dry is getting old fast. Don’t even get me started on when we try to wash sheets, its anything goes at that point, hang it on a door? why not. Across 2 chairs? We’re getting serious now. Not to mention the whole lack of clothes thing I mentioned before means I have to be strategic what I wash and when so I don’t end up with no dry shirts again (turns out I like white, which means they all end up in a whites load).

8. Sunshine

Sunshine is a rare gift here at the moment. Most of the time it is permanently grey and dreary and most likely foggy. Yesterday it was so foggy you were damp after being outside for 10 minutes. It wasn’t raining but you still got wet. Coming from Sydney (and Daniel from California) we are really used to a lot of sunshine so this has been a major adjustment for us. So when the sun does come out its like a big happy surprise. I’ll wake up to see sun streaming behind the curtains and get so excited I’ll leap out of bed and just throw the curtains back. before getting outside ASAP.

9. A magically refilling fridge and Pantry

Ok this might be a bit unattainable but I miss the (usually) full fridge at home living with my parents. Man I had it good (I’m sure my parents are getting satisfaction reading this, hi guys, yes I appreciated it!). I also miss being able to just drive up the road to the supermarket and drive back. Here when we do our weekly grocery shop its like an expedition of walking a few blocks, catching the tram, cramming everything into our backpacks and bags then tram and walk back. I swear it takes forever! Not to mention planning our weeks meals and list writing before so we stay on budget. Then by the time the Sunday rolls around we somehow always seem to be out of something like milk and we didn’t realise before and of course all the supermarkets are closed Sundays. Oh well grocery shopping will forever seem like a breeze one day, when we have a car in the US or Australia and where we won’t have to spend ages trying to translate an ingredient to make sure its what we think it is.

10. SNOW!!!

When it comes down to it, all I really want is snow. All we really want is a White Christmas. I’ve had one other white Christmas and Daniel has never had one. We cannot wait for it to snow here, its going to look so beautiful from our apartment windows looking out over the park below. Everyday I check the weather forecast and its constantly changing. Earlier this week it predicted snow for today, but now we have the most beautiful sunny weather today. Then it said Monday, now it says Wednesday. So I’ve given up, it will just be an exciting surprise one day when it finally happens.

What’s the most unconventional item on your Christmas Wishlist?

Life Is Good

Life-Is-Good

Today marks 2 months since we moved to Berlin, and you now what I realised today? Life is good! A lot has happened in the last 2 months. There have been ups like being here for reunification day and the fall of the wall anniversary. There have aslo been downs, mostly associated with the Auslanderbehorde aka aliens office. But now it finally feels like everything is falling into place.

When we first arrived in Berlin everything was new and exciting, currywurst? Yes please! A giant pretzel? why not! Beer in the middle of the day at a festival? Hell Yeh! After a few weeks though the novelty wore off slightly and we found ourselves at a bit of a loss. Without jobs we had endless free time, which sounds good in theory (I would have killed for that a few months ago) but when everyday is the weekend nothing feels special. It’s easy to fall into a rut when you don’t know anyone, don’t speak the language and have no sort of regular routine. We weren’t home, but we weren’t traveling, it’s a very strange feeling. Couple that with the painstaking job searching and visa process it can be quite tough. After having to go to the Alien’s office a total of 7 times!! Each time getting up at 4am and waiting in line for hours with a bunch of wannabe Germans who keep trying to cut the line (seriously I nearly lost it the 7th time, there was some serious elbowing happening I’ll tell you!) all because the front desk lady took an instant disliking to us because we couldn’t speak German. It can be pretty disheartening. I was about ready to pack it in.

But we didn’t. Things started to pick up. And you know what the great thing about Berlin is? There is always stuff happening. Berlin really is an amazing city, there have been so many events happening during this short time we have lived here from Oktoberfest to reunification day to the Fall of the wall anniversary. Let me tell you they know how to throw a party! I can’t wait for the Christmas Markets, bring on a month of Gluhwien!! This is not to mention all the amazing markets around the city, the acoustic nights at bars that feel like home, the comedy nights at cozy cafes and so much more. We’ve been so lucky to have already had numerous visitors and more to come!

We are in a really great place now. Daniel starts work soon and we both have some great looking potential job prospects. We have met a few great people. We’ve got our favourite restaurants and cafes as well as lists of weekly events we hit up or plan to check out. Even this blog is starting to take off. Friday we are moving to a new apartment in our favourite area on the other side of the city and we couldn’t be more excited. I’ll miss our first apartment, its so nice and we were spoiled for space, and I love our little park and the hipster cafe with the sofas on stilts. But I can’t say I’ll miss almost getting peed on by a homeless woman, faeces of an unknown species (aka we’re never sure if its dog or human) or getting woken to the sounds of screams that sounds like the Turkish mafia. Neukolln, it’s been real. I’ll try to visit occasionally (maybe).

We still have a little way to go before we are truly settled here, but it’s almost starting to feel just a little bit like home. I cannot wait for the first snow! And Christmas Markets! And Gluhwien! I’m dreaming of a white Christmas.

Tonight we went ice skating 2 blocks from our house, at an uncrowded outdoor rink as the slightest hint of snow swirled in the sky. So yeh, life is pretty damn good.

Here’s a snapshot of our first 2 months in Berlin

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Being Tourists

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Atop the Victory Column

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Berlin’s Oktoberfest

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The Wall

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Sunday Funday at Bear Pit karaoke

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Berlin Reunification Day

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Celebrating Reunification Day like Berliners

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Fall Leaf Love

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Our favourite park around the corner

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Exploring Grunewald Forest

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Parks around Berlin- Potsdam & Grunewald Forest

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Templehof Airport turned park

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Going to miss being a block away from Templehof Airport Park (good thing it will be freezing!)

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Berliner Bureaucracy

Oh the joys of bureaucracy. It’s been a difficult week. We are currently in the process of trying to work out and lodge visas. It is not something they make straightforward or give you much information on.
I’m currently sitting in a waiting room filled with crazed people desperate to just be given a waiting number. Daniel’s currently standing in a queue if you can call it that. It’s a semi organised formation of people all trying to elbow each other out. There’s a lot of suspicious eye movement, making sure no one pushes in front of them. The tension is palpable to say the least.

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The scene right now

There are conversations about visas that have already expired but they can’t get an appointment to see anyone, others who have come here at 5:30am 3 days in a row, people who waited 6hours the day before only to be handed an appointment for 6 weeks time.

But that’s just this morning, this is not our first German bureaucratic experience. Last week Daniel’s boss sent us to the wrong building. We waited half an hour in line before being told “nein”, handed a piece of paper with a bunch of versions of “please come back with papers written in German and a translator” then promptly made to leave the counter. We decided to try our luck on a another floor just incase we went to the wrong desk and fortunately found a kind woman who spoke a little English who was then the one that informed us we were at the wrong entire place.
So Tuesday we tried again, at the correct place this time, Auslaenderbehoerde, aka the Alien’s Office. Because thats what we are. Aliens. And they don’t let you forget it!

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We got there just after it opened at 7am, there were people going every which way. We had no idea where to go but I knew we needed to work it out fast because I had read the allotted ‘no appointment’ numbers for the day run out fast. There are a few signs around, but of course all in German. We asked a sort of pseudo info/security desk and managed to get the gist of where to go. When we got to the right spot it became even harder. There is no one to ask, there are a couple signs in German and there are people filling the waiting room and lining up down the hall. Its a nightmare. Luckily a few friendly other Americans (can always count on friendly Americans) told us what to do… Wait in line until someone leaves the room behind that door and then go in to beg get a number. After waiting about 45min in line Daniel finally just went in, luckily because no one was in there. He was kicked out in a matter of seconds and told to come back with a translator, again! We were at the Alien’s office for gods sake!! Homeless people on the street rant to us in English as if the people working in the Alien’s office can’t speak English?!! I mean what are the other poor people in the same waiting room from Sudan and South America supposed to do, they can barely even speak English let alone German!!

Thankfully this nice couple, American wife, German husband, took pity on us and he went in with Daniel to translate. Such a kind man he not only translated he went out of his way to defend Daniel’s case! He told us the lady had wanted to kick Daniel out straight away and he argued with her that it was not right and that Daniel was bringing “prosperous work to the German economy unlike the rest of the ‘so-called’ refugees she was letting just file in and destroy our economy”. He went on that Daniel was educated, skilled and already employed and that she should, well pretty much that she should pull the pole out of her ass. This guy really restored our faith in the people of Germany, he went out of his way to help us and he didn’t even know us AND had his wife and not quite 4 week old baby waiting.

While this was all going on I was chatting with her and the other people in the waiting room, turns out this ridiculousness isn’t unique to us (kind of a relief to know were not just stupid). They told us you need to get to the office at like 5:30am and that they’ve done it in the middle of winter before. This was the third day in a row one a few of them had come, one guy had even had an appointment! They said even for Germans the bureaucracy is a nightmare. So after a bit of solidarity bonding hearing other people’s stories we felt no less frustrated but a little less disheartened to know that this is just what has to be done and that every expat working here has already been through this shit. If it was easy, everyone would do it.

So here are again, third times a charm right?? Right?? I’m waiting in the US waiting room again because the Australian room is already filled up (lucky me the other nations in my section are Iran, Iraq, Afganistan, Jordan, Yemen etc so you can imagine its pretty busy). Daniel went in slightly more prepared this time with pretty much the only German phrase I know ‘Konnte ich bitte eine wartnummern ham’ (I’ve probably totally butchered this)- ‘Can I please have a waiting number?’ At least I hope thats right. Hopefully they’ll see it as a sign of good faith.

Oh wait, he’s back! And what do you know… we have to come back 7am Monday. Let the good times roll.

Anyone have any tips on the visa process in Germany??

There is No Manual on Becoming an Expat

Preparing to pack up your life and move overseas is hard. There is so much stuff you don’t readily think of that you need to do, from dentist appointments to cancelling gym memberships to working out what to do with my car and packing up my room. It is hectic! Don’t get me wrong I didn’t think it would be easy or anything but I am constantly thinking of new stuff I have to do that you completely forget about because you just take it for granted that its just a part of life, you forget how complex your life really is.

Then we had a slight curve-ball thrown at us the other week when we found out American citizens can’t get Working Holiday Visas… aka I can (being Australian) but Daniel can’t. Thank god the lovely Alex from Speaking Denglish pointed this out when she so kindly answered my long questions on Germany and visas, I honestly don’t know how we missed it when looking into it all but thankfully we had enough time to work out what to do. The plan is still pretty much the same except we’ll now have to get real jobs so we can get working visas, sad face! Downside less flexibility for travel, upside more money for travel! That and I think it makes our families feel a little better that we will hopefully be somewhat stable and not just live like Peter Pan forever. And well if we don’t find jobs we now have plan b… and plan c. Don’t judge me. There is no manual on becoming an expat! I’ve finally resorted to writing a scarily long running to do list and printing out a blank calendar of now until I leave and scheduling everything in. Let me tell you… it’s full. Its pretty damn full.

Then again I guess half the fun is the challenge, knowing that you are making this happen. That you really are ‘taking the road less traveled’.

One of the best but also strangest and saddest parts is trying to see everyone before you. I say best because I have had a great time the past couple of weeks, never saying no to anything because who knows when I’ll do it again or see them again as well as spending some really valuable time with my family who I will miss the most. Its been strange though seeing friends who I don’t catch up with on a regular basis and then having to randomly drop into conversation the fact that I’m moving overseas in oh you know 3 weeks! I do quite enjoy the reactions I get though haha! Here is a bit of a photo recap of from the last 2 weeks of all of the great quality family and friends time I’ve had trying to get a good dose of all things Sydney (and other parts of Australia) to last me until I’m back, who knows when that will be! Hannah-Perisher-Ski-Selfie

 Thats right we have skiing in Australia! Ski-whiteout-perisher Perisher-family-ski-lift-selfieGirls-high-tea-cruise copy High tea Cruise on Sydney Harbour with my girls
Girls-selfie-sydney-harbour-bridgemy-girlsUnleash girls with a view and a GoPro and let the group selfies run wild
Southhead-old-gun-stationA wonderful day with my family at South Head, Sydney HarbourSydney-harbour-rock-edgeElliot-Hannah-SouthheadGoing to miss my bro
Leaping-dolphinHannah-Alice-Anabelle-Southhead
Hornby-lightthe-gap copyBad-selfies Siblings fun, We’re so good at taking group shots.
bronte-beach-pool-large-swellwhitewash-tamarama-beachlarge-swell-bronte-beachCrazy swells at Bondi Beach

Saying goodbye is going to be the hardest part.

Life Lately | When It Rains It Pours

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Ok clearly I’m not very good at the whole consistently posting thing but I swear I have a good excuse, I finally bought my one-way ticket to Germany! I’ve spent the last week organising that, who would have thought a one-way flight would be so tricky. When it comes to the visa issues that go with such a flight (Europe’s not so cool with you flying in without a plan to leave!), money issues trying to get the cheapest way there and timing it gets difficult. Thank god for the wonderful Erin at STA, so helpful. She managed to find the best and cheapest way to get me to Zagreb, Croatia. Its going to be long and painful as I’m flying Sydney to Singapore, to Helsinki, to Zurich where I’m going to stay with some family friends and leave all of my excess luggage there before catching a 14 hour overnight train Zagreb. Its going to be sucky but oh so worth it.

So today I’ve been off at the German consulate attempting to apply for my German working Holiday Visa, it didn’t go so well. Note for future expats: they are not the most helpful or patient (even though I was the only one in the 20+ person waiting room). Its ok I’ll come back next week, I’m sure she’s looking forward to it as much as I am…

Some really big news last week, my position at work was filled! Eek! No going back now. But its for the best, the new person brings everything I had to offer and more so I can leave feeling relieved that they are in really good hands.

I had a fun but kind of sad weekend fare-welling my 2 best friends as they set off to travel Europe. It was a great night with everyone, dancing, drinking and being merry. But it was sad because it was the last time for a while that the 3 of us will all party together. I’ll see one of them in a month when she gets back and then I’ll meet up with the other in Croatia for Yacht Week and the Greek Islands, but still last time all 3 of us will be together for a while! After almost 10 years of friendship this is so strange to think about.

Best-friendsThe ladies
Sydney-Departure-GateGood luck! Have fun!!

It was a bit of an odd night (besides all of the cocktails, speeches and sparklers) because I saw a bunch of friends who I don’t get to see on a regular basis so hadn’t had a chance to tell them I was leaving and since I may not see them before I leave I had to just randomly drop this news into conversations. Its kinda awkward telling people, its not like it naturally comes up in conversation so I have randomly dump it in like “that’s great your job is going so well oh by the way I’m moving to Germany in 6 weeks” this is usually followed by looks of shock followed by congratulations so its not all bad. Its nice to have such wonderful supportive friends, its going to be hard not seeing them for a while. Its not like the US where everybody leaves their high school friends to go to college then leaves their college friends etc, here most people go to University in Sydney so majority of people still live at home and go to the same Uni’s. This means my high school friends are still my main group of friends, our group has just expanded as people made new friends at Uni and added to it. Its really nice because I have a really strong core group of friends, its going to be tough not having them around in Berlin.

So yeah its been a little hectic, but this week I’m going to post more of New Zealand because I haven’t even gotten to the awesome parts yet!